Dayavu Home for Boys

Dayavu Home was the first The Bethania Foundation India TM home, opened 30 years ago with just 5 children led by founder Dayavu Dhanapal. Today it is home to 45 boys who thrive with the loving care of the staff.

Dayavu Home for Boys – Kannivadi, Tamil Nadu

Welcome to Dayavu Home for Boys in Kannivadi, Tamil Nadu state, South India. Kannivadi is near the town of Dindigul and the foothills of the Western Ghats. It was the first of The Bethania Foundation India TM’ homes, started 30 years ago with just 7 children. A long and bumpy dirt road brings you to Dayavu Home, but once there, you recognize the oasis it is for the 45 boys who live there. As you drive through the gates, the porch across the front of the two-story building beckons you to meet the children. On the bottom floor of the building is an office, a sick room, the kitchen, a large room used for studying and meals as well as one dormitory-style bedroom. The second floor has two more large bedrooms and bathroom facilities. Behind the home is an additional bathroom, a large water tank and flat concrete area used for washing and drying clothes. It is a very large compound that includes a home for the caretaker’s family, a guest house, an open-air chapel and land for agricultural use.

Meet the Boys of Dayavu Home

The boys at Dayavu Home are there because they had no one to care for them. Some are orphans, some are semi-orphans and others came from dire family situations where poverty and trauma left them struggling to survive. The transition to the disciplined, structured life at Dayavu Home is sometimes difficult but made easier by the support and encouragement from the other boys who have had similar experiences. With the loving care of the staff and the daily provision of nutritious meals, health care and hygienic living, these boys soon flourish. They are full of energy and fun and also show great respect to the staff and to one another.

Although initially shy, shortly after your arrival the boys will take your hand and invite you to see their pet birds, the peacock, and the vegetables and banana trees they are growing. The coconut grove and papaya and tamarind trees provide wonderful shade as well as food for the kitchen. There is also a large grove of guava trees, teak trees and flowering plants. The playground equipment and expansive space in front of the home allow room for the boys to play their favorite sports. Water availability is often a problem in this area, but thanks to new wells and a drip-irrigation system from Field of Hope, the situation has dramatically improved.

It doesn’t take long for the boys to win your heart at Dayavu Home. The smiles on their faces and sparkles in their eyes are rewarding to see, especially as they have all experienced various forms of trauma in their lives. They take great pride in their tidy bedrooms, the plants they nurture and grow, and the art they create out of sand or flower petals. They are delighted to share these achievements with you. When you ask to take their pictures, they will comb each other’s hair to make sure each looks his best. Should you happen to notice a red seed lying on the ground and pick it up to look at it, before you know it you’re presented with handfuls of those seeds. Hearing them laugh as they are up to their knees in mud while playing in the irrigation ditches of the coconut grove brings home the realization that these boys have been given the gift of a childhood that includes joy and laughter, when their lives could have been so different.

An Alumni Story

As Dayavu Home was the first The Bethania Foundation India TM home, it has the oldest alumni. At the beginning, Dayavu Home included both boys and girls. Mrs. Anita returned last year to talk to us about growing up at The Bethania Foundation India TM’ first home. She shared her life story and how The Bethania Foundation India TM saved her life. With tears of joy, she shared the pain of growing up in extreme poverty before coming to live at Dayavu Home. She is now happily married, has a small child, and she works as a nurse in a local government hospital. We are very proud of Mrs. Anita!